My boyfriend Jordan asked my dad who said it was OK, and then he asked me and of course, I said yes! So we're engaged! But now there are so many things to do, and a little less than a year's time. Where do I start?

There are flowers and dresses, venues and decorations, music, and drinks, makeup and hair -- OH MY! Deep breath, Cheyenne, deep breath!

Lucky for me I am a girl, which means I have been planning our wedding in my head since the day I knew Jordan was for me. So I do have an idea of what I would like our wedding to look like. It also helps that Jordan knows exactly what he wants and what he doesn't want!

What I want to know as I start this wedding planning party is this: What do you wish you HAD done at your wedding, and what trends could you have lived without?